DestinyLife Church of Claremore and Owasso will once again address the “elephant in the pew” with Porn Sunday, A Call to Purity, set January 29,2012. Pastor Roger Nix, of Believers Church from Tulsa will be speaking in all four worship experiences, Claremore 9:00 and 11:00 am, and Owasso 10:00 am and 12:00 pm. “The purpose of this Sunday is to openly address a real problem facing American families, explained Glenn Shaffer, lead pastor of DestinyLife. “We will provide a safe and non threatening environment on this Sunday for families to get information.”

According to statistics 87% of children between the ages of 8-16 years old have viewed pornography online. Pornography accounts for 23% of retail sales on-line. Statistics report more than 50% of Christian men regularly view porn and more than 30% of pastors admit to struggling with online pornography. Porn revenue is larger than all combined revenues of all professional football, baseball and basketball franchises. Pornography accounts for 70 billion dollars a year worldwide, 13 billion dollars here in the United States, and 30% of unsolicited e-mail contains pornographic material.

This will be the second year that DestinyLife Church has hosted such an event. Last year on Super Bowl Sunday, DestinyLife joined with more than 300 churches nationwide via simulcast to address this issue. “Many Christians want to pretend that there is not a problem in the church,” Shaffer further stated. “Some people seem to think that if we don’t talk about it, it won’t be a problem.”

DestinyLife Church is approaching this Sunday with non-judgment by offering a safe environment for help. “DestinyLife has taken step to speak out on this issue,” explained Tom Williams, executive pastor of DestinyLife. “We have many men who have embraced their struggle and are seeing victory in their life.” For more information visit www.destinyifechurch.tv

 

 

Every Member A Minister

Posted: December 6, 2011 in Church Government

There is no greater fulfillment in life than serving in the Master’s kingdom. Each person has a part to play. For centuries the church has been divided into two groups, clergy and layman. Now God has begun to take down that wall of separation.  The healthiest churches around the world are those in which all members are encouraged to become active in their gifts.

Who are the Ministers?

In the early church every member was considered a minister. Peter tells us that the people are a royal priesthood.[1] Paul said that each one has a ministry function. Therefore, every member is a minister.

It is common to refer to members in the church as layman. This is an Old Testament term used to refer to those who cannot participate in the holy things of God.[2]  When members are seen as non-ministers; then only the hired professionals are perceived as capable of doing ministry. Thus, the separation between clergy and layman is made. We must guard against this traditional means of separating leaders and members. In rejecting an artificial division between clergy and laity, we are not saying there should not be great respect given to elders who labor in the Word. The Bible plainly teaches that we are to submit to those who are in authority over us,[3] and to esteem them highly in love for the sake of the work.[4] However, these leaders should be more appropriately seen as coaches and the members as players who have been trained and equipped for participation.

In the Gospels we read that Jesus chose fishermen and ordinary individuals to be the foundational apostles for His church. In the Book of Acts we see people like Philip, Barnabas, and Stephen who were regular people equipped in the local church and did mighty works of ministry. Therefore, the local church should be the training center where ordinary people are developed to serve under the elders as ministers of the Gospel.

New Testament ministry includes, winning people to Christ, developing them in ministry, and releasing them to responsibilities and oversight for others.  That should be our goal in the church today; members growing in their gifts and fully functioning in the local church as followers of Christ.

What Is Ministry?

The word ministry is translated from the word serve or servant. The Greek word diakonia (dee-ak-on-ee’-ah) means to attend (as a servant) or to aid in Christian service. The Greek word diakonos (dee-ak’-on-os) is from where we get the word deacon. To minister is to serve in and through one’s spiritual gift.

As you take on responsibilities, you learn to identify your gift and look for opportunities that fit your area. A willingness to serve regardless of the area, however, is paramount to developing one in ministry. It is in these tasks that one develops. There are many ministry tasks[5] in the church that may or may not be within a person’s particular gifting or calling but they are important, nevertheless, to developing faithfulness in the disciple.

Unfortunately, many Christians see ministry as a glamorous and public presentation. They often talk about the future as though one day they will be in ministry. These Christians are looking more for position than they are biblical ministry. They fail to discern the Body of Christ and the value of every member as a minister. They may see the daily care of young disciples as an interruption to their own agenda, thus missing true ministry.

Ministry in the church is primarily winning the lost, assimilating new Christians into the life of the Church, discipling them into maturity, and mobilizing them into service. Unless one is mentoring others or supporting those that are, then he has not entered New Testament ministry. Ministry is about people. People matter to God.  Christ’s church is made up of people, and those who submerge themselves in and among the people of God will be the ministers in the Church.

Developing In Ministry

Ministry comes out of being. You cannot take others where you have not been. You cannot impart to others what you do not have, and you cannot truly teach what you have not experienced. Ministry flows out of maturity. Maturity grows out of experiences and properly relating to God and His Word in these life situations.  It is during difficult circumstances when one matures the most. A disciple must recognize the learning process and gather wisdom from every setback. Then he will always mature.

There are some practical steps you can take to develop in ministry.

1)   Acknowledge and accept your placement – Many people are always looking toward the future for ministry while failing to recognize the place in which they reside. Accept where God has placed you in the local church to develop. Also acknowledge and accept your spiritual gifts as God has given them to you.  Bloom where you are planted.

2)   Submit to the vision of where you are planted – Apply yourself to support the vision of the church where you are planted. Lay down your personal agenda and become consumed with developing under someone else. Accept ministry tasks when the leaders ask you. Go through the foundation classes and training to become involved in your church. Pray for the leadership and support them with your whole heart.

3)   Commit to the spiritual formations[6] in your life – Allow adverse situations to develop and grow you. Learn through these times. Apply yourself to character developing and the development of your inner-life in Christ. Learn the power of God’s presence through prayer and fasting. Learn to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit and establish a regular time in the Word of God.

4)   Ask for help with ministry skills – Be willing to be mentored. Don’t expect anyone to give you all his time, but determine what you can receive from those around you. Write out where you see they can help you and ask for that help. Seek input from others on how you can develop and improve your people skills, communication skills, and leadership skills. Apply your self to reading and studying in the areas in which you need development the most. Develop further in your gifts.

5)   Seek fruit that will remain – At the end of your life, what will matter the most are the people in whom you have invested your life. Determine now that you will disciple others into what you are learning. Your own ministry development is in direct proportion to the people whom you have helped in their ministry. When you help enough people reach their potential, your leadership influence will have grown exponentially. The true test of a mature disciple is when those he has discipled are making disciples.  That is fruit that will remain.


[1] 1 Peter 2:9

[2] Layman – others besides the priest.  New American Standard Translation, Numbers 1:51; 16:40; Exodus 29:33; Leviticus 22:13

[3] Hebrews 13:7, 17

[4] 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13; 1 Timothy 5:17

[5] J. Robert Clinton defines as ministry task as an assignment from God, which primarily tests a person’s faithfulness and obedience but often also allows use of ministry gifts in the context of a task, which has closure, accountability, and evaluation.

[6] J. Robert Clinton’s book Leadership Perspectives defines spiritual formation as the development of the inner-life of a person of God so that, the person experiences more of the life of Christ, reflects more Christi-like characteristics in personality and in everyday relationships, and increasingly knows the power and presence of Christ in ministry.

In the New Testament, elders were never elected by the people but appointed by apostles. Some maintain that a democratic form of selection is meant in Acts 14, when Paul and Barnabas appointed elders in every city.  The Greek word for “appoint” cheirotoneo can be translated as to stretch forth the hand as to select or appoint.[1] Consequently, some claim this was done through an election process. The contextual authority would hardly allow for such a translation. It is Paul and Barnabas who are stretching forth their hands as in the order of “laying on of hands” for the ordination process.  That is far from the common modern-day order of electing elders. “In Acts 14:23, therefore, we are simply told that Paul and Barnabas appointed elders in the recently founded churches of South Galatia, but the verb itself tells us nothing about the method of appointment. To insist, as some scholars do, that Paul and Barnabas followed the procedure of Acts 6:1-6 [ordaining of deacons] when appointing elders is unjustified. The congregations’ involvement is simply not revealed in this passage.”[2]

Elders were never voted out of office in the New Testament.  They served for the remainder of their life unless they left that church, became disqualified through a moral failure, or resigned, or died. Elders are called by God and proven through time and service as worthy to be ordained in a particular local church.

This process of selection includes the following essential elements. Six yeses are needed to fully discover those who are ready to serve the local congregation as shepherds.

1)  YES TO GOD: A personal response to the call and gift of God.  The individual must know personally that God has called him or her to one of the five gifts of Ephesians 4:11.

2)  YES TO PEOPLE: A demonstrated willingness to care for people.  Discipleship and care for others is a must for an elder to earn the authority needed to give oversight. A less mature individual may declare, “I have the gift to pastor, God has called me, why doesn’t anyone appoint me to lead?”  That is a complete misunderstanding of how the process works. Apostles are looking for those who are already serving. No one makes someone else what they are not. To lay hands upon an individual before they have proven themselves worthy will only result in a rejection by the people. It requires submerging oneself in the care of others before true authority will be released. A true shepherd will smell like sheep.  He will be among the people. It is not a position that should be sought, but a care for the sheep.

3)  YES TO THE VISION: A willingness to accept the vision of the local church. In order to be given a place of leadership as an elder one must submerge oneself in the vision of that local house. Without fully embracing the direction and values of the local church then division will develop. When one embraces the same vision and direction of the church then authority will be given to them through service.

4) YES TO AUTHORITY: A willingness to work and submit under someone else.  In order to have authority, one must be under authority. It is important that an individual who is to serve as an elder be submitted to others and not to his own agenda.

We see a team of elders serving the churches of the New Testament. This requires a submissive heart to flow together with others. Jesus established this principle when he spoke of the steward who must first be faithful to that which belongs to another, before God will give him his own.[3]  Though no church belongs to an elder, the principle of faithful servanthood is meant here.

5)  YES THROUGH A CONFIRMING WORD:  Confirmation of their gift through prophets and apostles. In a church that embraces the full gifts of Ephesians, there will over time, be opportunities for God to reveal before others what an individaul’s gift is in that church.  This confirmation may come before or even after there is evidence, nevertheless, evidence of the gift must be received by others before one is ordained an elder.

Apostles have a key role in this selection as we see Paul and Barnabas ordaining elders in every church. Often times there will be a conformation through the prophetic words of prophets. [4]  It has been our practice to have one or two foundational gifts (apostles or prophets) join the presbytery at each ordination. These are individuals who are outside of our local congregation, yet very much in relationship to the church, so the people have confidence in a broader counsel of ministry.

6)   YES THROUGH RESPECT:  A level of respect and authority among the people.  An elder must be able to stand before the people with spiritual authority of his or her own so that when he speaks he stands as a representative of God. It is imperative that one be received by the congregation through respect given to him.  “Before Paul appointed elders at Thessalonica, he wrote to the church, exhorting the congregation to know and esteem those who labored among them.  Presumably, Paul planned to return on a later occasion and officially appoint those who were known and esteemed by the assembly for their labor.”[5]

This aspect of ordaining elders is crucial. Too often, someone is ordained because they are close to the lead elder/senior pastor.  The fear may be that if they are overlooked that the embarrassment will be too great, so pressure is placed upon the other elders to ordain someone before their time.  That is why Paul urged Timothy to not “be quick to lay on hands.”[6]

If an “elder to be” is operating in delegated authority only from the lead elder, then he is not ready to stand alone as an elder in his own right. It is not until the people receive an elder as speaking for God in agreement with the eldership, is he fully received and ready to be ordained.  It has been my experience that when an elder is ordained and the congregation declares, “We could have done this some time ago, because he has already been serving as an elder,” then the timing is probably correct.  However, if one is ordained too early the people may enquire, “What makes him an elder?”  Great confidence is lost if an elder does not stand in respect before the people himself.  He must be a teacher and minister with spiritual authority in his own right.


[1] STRONG’S CONCORDANCE

[2] Alexander Strauch, Biblical Eldership, An Urgent Call to Restore Biblical Church Leadership (Littleton, CO: Lewis and Roth Publishers, 1986) p. 73

[3] Luke 16:12

[4] 1 Timothy 4:14

[5] Alexander Strauch, Biblical Eldership, An Urgent Call to Restore Biblical Church Leadership (Littleton, CO: Lewis and Roth Publishers, 1986) p. 76

[6] 1 Timothy 5:22

Five Principles of Interpretation

Posted: November 24, 2011 in Discipleship

To maintain integrity in interpreting the scriptures, certain principles should be adhered.  This avoids personal application of meaning and presuppositions.  It takes discipline to hold to these principles when they fly in the face of our preconceptions.

‚    Biblical Hermeneutics - This order of interpretation allows the scripture to interpret the scripture. Great confidence can be given to this type of interpretation. This is particularly useful when examining apocalyptic and end-of-the-world language.  Interpret the Old Testament in light of the New.

‚    Apostolic Hermeneutics – This is similar to biblical hermeneutics. When we allow the New Testament apostles to tell us the meaning of Old Testament prophets, we have truly discovered the foundation of the church. Though I believe apostles and prophets still exist in the church today, I think the meaning of Ephesians 2:19 -22 is most fully understood in the light of the church being built upon the foundation of the New Testament apostles and the Old Testament prophets.  That is, the words of the Old Testament prophets are interpreted by the New Testament apostles, “. . . you are . . . of the household of God, having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ Himself being the chief corner stone, in whom the whole building, being joined together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord, in whom you also are being built together for a dwelling place of God in the Spirit.

‚    Contextual Revelation – Interpret the scriptures in light of the context. This principle is commonly ignored. Too often verses are taken out of context and made to mean something entirely differently.  This means of interpretation should always be used.  There may be allegorical benefits to scriptures, but the context is the authority for interpretation.

‚    Clear Revelation - Interpret the difficult passages in light of the clear passages.  This is similar to biblical hermeneutics.  We include this principle, however, so as to keep the meanings interpreted in light of already easily accepted revelation.  Do not do the opposite and try to understand the clear passages by the difficult ones.

‚   Comprehensive Revelation – Interpret scriptures within the scope of the whole counsel of God.  Scriptures even in context still need to be placed within the wider view.  This prevents the doctrine from being built upon isolated passages.  The overall theme of God’s purposes and plan gives stability in interpretations

Passage to Read:  John 4:23-24; Phil 4:4-9

Who taught you to worship? What comes to mind when you think about worship? Have you ever asked the question, “What is worship?” Worship means “worth-ship.” It reveals what we value. What is worth your full life? Worship speaks more of our daily life than it does of our Sunday church attendance. Worship begins with an inner focus and then is manifested outwardly in real life. When we gather corporately for worship we enter into an aspect of our Christians experience that strengthens the whole church and comes out of our own private worship through the week.

Worship begins in the heart and must be in spirit and truth. Notice, Jesus said this was a “must.” The Father seeks those who will worship Him and this is the only way. Worship is a key aspect to your spiritual growth and development. It starts from the inside from our spirit. It proceeds from our spirit in communion with His Spirit and with total truth in the heart. “In truth,” means there is full disclosure before God. David declared that God desires “truth in the inward parts” (Ps 51:6). This is not a time to pretend or hide, but rather to be totally open and transparent with a mighty God. When Paul told the Philippians to rejoice in all things this is not denial or pretending everything is okay, but rather, a total trust in God. It is a total abandonment to God. This is real worship and honor.

Jesus taught that even our prayer begins in worship. He taught His disciples to pray, “Our Father, which is in heaven, honored and holy is Your name.” When we honor God we place ourselves in a humble position. Prayer begins with worship: inhaling the essence of God and expressing devotion to the One who created all things and sustains their existence by the word of His power (Hebrews 1:2-3). David’s expressions of wonder so prominent in the Psalms are a good place to begin when approaching God. Being captivated by the immensity and the intricacies of creation is another way to experience the wonder of the One who has invited us to a life of intimacy in prayer. Worship brings us before God in a way that nothing else does.

Question: How can I express my love and devotion to God through worship?

Passage to Read:  Philippians 4:10-20

God has a way of renewing our concern for His matters in His kingdom. Often our hearts just need an opportunity to respond. That is the approach that Paul the apostle, took with the Christians in Philippi. He shared the opportunity but not out of coercion or out of need, but rather he presented an opportunity for them to partner with him in the gospel. He made it clear that he could get by even if they did not partner with him, but he knew they needed an opportunity to be part of something beyond themselves. Each of us needs to be included in the greater vision by partnering in a vision that no one could do by himself or herself.

Paul states that it was good for the church in Philippi to share in his need and reminded them that they had demonstrated faithful in the past. He recalls how they gave to him again and again when no other church did. God used this one church to partner with Paul in eternal matters that went down in history and are recorded not only in heaven but also in the lives of people who were changed. That is why he says they have credit in their account.

Who is keeping an account? Apparently, heaven is keeping an account. It will not be until we get into eternity will we truly know how faithfully some people have sacrificed for the kingdom. There are people who use what they had to serve in the kingdom in such a way that their reward in heaven will honor God and change lives here.

When Paul wrote the church in Corinthians he said, “he who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows generously will also reap generously” (2 Corinthians 9:6). Maybe you have never thought about how important your participation is in a partnership with others can be.  Over the long haul much can be added to your account. After all, when it is said and done the only thing that matters is eternal things now and in the future.

Question: How is my partnership in the kingdom making a difference in people’s lives?

Passage to Read:  2 Timothy 2,4
There are few things more gratifying than accomplishment.

Watch victorious competitors at the end of the contest and you see joy, tears,
satisfaction, and fulfillment. The long journey of preparation that included pain,
sacrifice, and disappointment pale into insignificance in light of the victory.  Listen
to the stories of those who participated and you’ll quickly discover that the road
to success was a long one. Often entire lives were devoted to achieving the mo-
ment they now celebrate.

Coaches will remind aspiring athletes, “No pain, no gain!”  They demand the diffi-
cult and impossible in order to build strength, encourage, resilience, and the char-
acter required to be successful. The writer of the book of Hebrews puts it in these
terms, “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you
are reproved by Him, for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines…” (Hebrews
12:5,6)

Jesus told those who gathered on a mountain meadow that hey were “the salt of
the earth and the light of the world” (Matthew 5:13,14). He announced that the
kingdom of heaven was at hand and prescribed a pattern for living that would
change them and the world in which they lived.

Those who accomplish great feats will often report that their preparation included
years of envisioning every phase of the contest, including the ultimate victory.
They could “see” the finish line and the glory that would follow. Paul spoke spiritu-
ally of finishing the course of life to receive “the crown of righteousness, which the
Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only me, but also
to all who have loved his appearing” (2 Timothy 4:8). In the light of the ultimate
reward, everything life promises and the circumstances that  seem to derail us
take on a different perspective.

Close your eyes and imagine a community transformed. See people obediently
following Christ, truly living as “salt and light” in all aspects of their lifestyles. Im-
agine how different life might be in a community where the power of God was
unleashed through the faithful lives of His people.

Question: What would our church look like in ten years if our vision
for ministry was successfully accomplished?

Passage to Read:  Romans 16; Hebrews 4:15

Say the word “relationship” and any number of thoughts and images are quick to pass through your mind. Notice how many close relationships Paul had in his life.

Relationships require us to feel and connect with others. Jesus was often moved by what others felt. Today he sits as our high priest feeling our weaknesses and needs. To be aware of others is to feel what they are experiencing. It requires maturity and some level of health to be aware of those around us.

Personal growth can be directly related to relationships: a memorable teacher, a demanding coach, a generous friend, and encouraging moment administered by someone who genuinely cared for you. Having people in our life is a key to experiencing all that God has for us. Paul desired to send Timothy to Philippi because he had no one else like him, who showed genuine concern for others (Phil 2:20).

Think of the words you would use to describe the most satisfying of relationships. They might be words like fun, shared interest, faithful, enduring, consistent, and safe. In those moments before his death, Paul speaks of Luke’s faithful presence with him when others had gone away (2 Timothy 4:11). If asked another question, “who benefits from a relationship?” the obvious answer would be both parties. The benefits of Luke’s relationship with Paul can be seen throughout his life and his life’s work. Reciprocity is the defining characteristic of relationships. If both people don’t benefit in a relationship, you don’t have a relationship at all. You have an arrangement.

To see God’s miracles in our lives we must be aware of those He has placed in our path. Once we are aware we can invest our time and effort into those connections. Rewards come to you and others when you build relationships.

Question: How do people benefit from their relationship with me? How does God benefit from his relationship with me?

Passage to Read:  1 Corinthians 12

Have you ever had someone come up to you and compliment you on something that you do particularly well? Maybe you did not see it as significant because it comes so naturally for you. You can’t begin to fathom why anyone would mention it as being praiseworthy because it’s just what you do. It comes out of your gifts.

Paul addresses what is obvious among those in the church at Rome when he writes, “Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let each of us exercise them accordingly…” (Romans 12:6).  And in writing to another church, the apostle reminds them that “you are not lacking in any gift” (1 Corinthians 1:7).  When God raises up a ministry, he provides for it in every way, including the provision of people with spiritual gifts sufficient to meet the challenges that ministry will encounter. The gifts we need are among the body.

Perhaps the next time someone speaks to you about something that you do very well, you should look at it as a spiritual gift and your part in the body. What they recognize is especially easy to you; it’s only easy because that’s the way you’ve been gifted by a gracious God. When you accept your place you begin to grow.

If you recognize God’s gifts in you, the next question should be, “How can I use this to impact the kingdom of God?” The Scripture is clear in reminding us, “Moreover it is required of stewards that a man be found faithful” (1 Corinthians 4:2). When we accept the life of Christ in others we benefit directly from Christ. When we accept the variety of gifts we learn to appreciate the multi-facet dimension of Christ in His Church. When we embrace the call of others we are able to spur them on to good works for the kingdom.

Question: What have people told me all of my life that I do well? Have I categorically dismissed it as being insignificant because it is so easy for me?  How can I use that gift to impact the Kingdom of God?

Prayer is communicating with God. Pray brings one into relationship with God and comes out of that relationship; therefore, certain elements in the life of a Christian that can hinder prayers. For our prayers to be productive, we should consider these five areas.

1) Prayers may be hindered if you regard known sin in your life.  When you regard sin in your life sin can become an idol and take the place of God. This happens because one’s insistence upon disobedience.

Psalms 66:18 – If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened.

Isaiah 59:2 – But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear.

Proverbs 28:9 – If anyone turns a deaf ear to the law, even his prayers are detestable.

2)            Prayers may be hindered if you asked selfishly.

James 4:3 – When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

3)            Prayers may be hindered if you pray in unbelief.

James 1:6-8 – But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.  That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.

4)            Prayers may be hindered if one dishonors his spouse.

1 Peter 3:7 – Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

5)           Prayers may be hindered if you leave unresolved conflict.

Matthew 5:23-24 – Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.

God has called you to a service of prayer.  The discipline of prayer is most rewarded with answered prayer and time spent with God. When people see their prayers answered, they are motivated to pray. May God reveal to you the vital importance of your life in prayer.